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#1704330 - 06/29/11 02:24 PM
How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
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What is the best way to go about finding a good teacher who likes working with adults. I have had several years of lessons & have been practicing on my own for about a year & a half. I just feel like I need some direction to improve. any ideas?
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#1704417 - 06/29/11 04:44 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Don't look for a teacher. Look for other adults who are already doing what you want to be doing, and ask them about their teachers.
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#1704435 - 06/29/11 05:09 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Registered: 06/08/08
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Loc: Seattle area, WA
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Simply ask questions. Be sure to ask if adult students are treated any differently than school age students, (they should be). Ask for some phone numbers of that teacher's other adult students. Listen carefully to the responses you get.
I thought I found a perfect teacher because she said she liked working with adults. She was pleasant enough but it took me a while to realize that I was at a severe disadvantage because she gave all the best repertoire, recital and master class opportunites to her school-aged students. I didn't realize that her main focus was to enter her school-aged students in competitions to enhance her reputation. She would get very upset if I acted like an adult and disagreed with her opinions. She expected me to follow her rigid youth-oriented syllabus which included among other things, keeping track of my practice time, competing in her trill speed contest, and being admonished and compared to her young students because I wasn't able to put in enough practice hours because of a demanding work week. I thought those requirements were ridiculous for an adult, but she was adamant. I found her stiffling and finally left her with relief.
P.S. The happy ending: I found an absolutely fantastic teacher who is challenging me like never before! He is a delight to work with and, yes, he was recommended by some adult friends of mine.
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#1704464 - 06/29/11 05:53 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Registered: 05/23/10
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Thanks for all of the suggestions. Guess I'll just have to be asking around. I was kind of hoping that there would be a "database" of qualified teachers that could be searched by location or proximity. I probably work on computers too much...
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#1704482 - 06/29/11 06:25 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Thanks for all of the suggestions. Guess I'll just have to be asking around. I was kind of hoping that there would be a "database" of qualified teachers that could be searched by location or proximity. I probably work on computers too much... If you do find such a database (and they do exist, sporadically at least), you can assume that it's poorly maintained or even unmaintained.
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#1704681 - 06/30/11 12:29 AM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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FWIW, you could try this: http://www.mtnacertification.org/Plug in the area, instrument, and zip in the left column and see what it turns up for you. YMMV (of course).
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#1704725 - 06/30/11 03:53 AM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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She expected me to follow her rigid youth-oriented syllabus which included among other things, keeping track of my practice time, competing in her trill speed contest,
OMG!  Was that a 'trill speed contest'? Now I've heard it all... Wouldn't let that teacher near any of my kids either.
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#1704869 - 06/30/11 11:23 AM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: ten left thumbs]
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She expected me to follow her rigid youth-oriented syllabus which included among other things, keeping track of my practice time, competing in her trill speed contest,
OMG!  Was that a 'trill speed contest'? Now I've heard it all... Wouldn't let that teacher near any of my kids either. Yes, there also were scale and arpeggio contests which she had proudly posted on her wall. 
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#1704962 - 06/30/11 01:43 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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Registered: 12/12/10
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She expected me to follow her rigid youth-oriented syllabus which included among other things, keeping track of my practice time, competing in her trill speed contest,
OMG!  Was that a 'trill speed contest'? Now I've heard it all... Wouldn't let that teacher near any of my kids either. Yes, there also were scale and arpeggio contests which she had proudly posted on her wall. How trilling for you! 
Edited by griffin2417 (07/01/11 11:01 AM) Edit Reason: I misspelled my lousy pun
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#1705290 - 06/30/11 10:15 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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Registered: 03/09/10
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... competing in her trill speed contest.. Holy carp! I've never heard of such a thing. I would have been out of there in a second once I heard that and that they insisted on treating you like a adolescent. It was tough enough being an adolescent once and having to deal with idiotic adults so there's no way I would want to go through that again.
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#1705315 - 06/30/11 11:08 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Registered: 06/08/08
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Yes, she was pretty horrendous. I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt so I hung on for 10 miserable months. Two things finally pushed me to leave her. First, she invited me to participate in a master class, then changed her mind, (only school aged students would participate), then changed it again and then again. Also she denied me the opportunity to study a piece I was passionate to learn because another student was working on it. I won't share her name publically, but if anyone wants to avoid her and is in the Kirkland, Washington area, send me a PM.
Again, I don't want to sound only negative. I did find a truly marvelous teacher.
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#1705335 - 06/30/11 11:52 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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Registered: 05/23/10
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I only hope that it's not necessary to go through too many teachers like that to find a good one. Not into trill contests. I've found several names on the nmta site. I'll have to narrow the list down & start interviewing. I also called a piano dealer in town but the referral was not a good match. She enjoys teaching beginners. I'm at the intermediate to advanced level.
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#1705448 - 07/01/11 08:32 AM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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gooddog, your post about not being permitted to join the master class illustrates the thing I would be most looking for in a teacher for adults, which is that they should afford me the same opportunities, and push me technically at least as hard, as they push their kid students.
At the same time of course as adapting their teaching for the different cognitive and motivational nature of an adult vs. a kid, possible musical background, and so on.
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#1705598 - 07/01/11 12:46 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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You also need someone who understands that adults have adult responsibilities and it is not always possible to practice as much as you'd like to.
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#1705604 - 07/01/11 01:01 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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Registered: 12/12/10
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You also need someone who understands that adults have adult responsibilities and it is not always possible to practice as much as you'd like to.
THANK YOU!!! And as an adult handling my responsibilities, I have to prioritize what gets done, and when it gets done. This was a litmus test I used to discern whether a potential teacher was right for me. The teacher I decided to go with seems to totally understand this and we've gotten along good so far.
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#1705631 - 07/01/11 01:39 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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My goodness. Everyone is so NICE here in the ABF. Pianist Corner has gotten awfully biting lately.
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#1705635 - 07/01/11 01:46 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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... I didn't realize that her main focus was to enter her school-aged students in competitions to enhance her reputation. ... I thought those requirements were ridiculous for an adult, but she was adamant. I would say that this attitude is just as detrimental to children, and they have the misfortune of not being able to speak up or change teachers. A teacher's goals should be to build a student's skills at the instrument, and create an understanding of music since the two go hand in hand. Activities that serve to make either the teacher or students look good (therefore the parents), or both do not serve those goals. Turn this around and you could say that a teacher who aims to give skills to young students is also good for older students since that need remains the same.
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#1705653 - 07/01/11 02:15 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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Registered: 12/12/10
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Loc: Minneapolis, MN
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My goodness. Everyone is so NICE here in the ABF. Pianist Corner has gotten awfully biting lately. Yes, I've noticed the nastiness too. Though, we've had some of that as well here at ABF. I like both, however. Everyday, I get invaluable insights from several of the forums.
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#1705730 - 07/01/11 04:25 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: PianoStudent88]
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gooddog, your post about not being permitted to join the master class illustrates the thing I would be most looking for in a teacher for adults, which is that they should afford me the same opportunities, and push me technically at least as hard, as they push their kid students.
At the same time of course as adapting their teaching for the different cognitive and motivational nature of an adult vs. a kid, possible musical background, and so on. I have had this type of conversation with my teacher and as I get further along in my piano studies (5 years) I keep refining my requests of what direction we should be taking so I can keep progressing to a high level. Recently I re-confirmed with her that what we were doing, over the appropriate time frame, would be equal to preparing a younger student to enter into a bachelor's degree in piano performance at a college or university. Her curriculum with me includes all of the same things her younger serious students get: scales, arpeggios in all keys, theory, analysis of the pieces I am playing, classical repertoire from all eras, technique through the music plus exercises, recitals. If there is a particular composer's music I'd like to learn in more depth she will find pieces that are at my level, or a challenge, and we discuss them. She always gets challenge pieces to push me knowing that I'll be able to accomplish the piece with some work. We have a very open dialogue and once my teacher becomes aware of my thoughts she adds more and more. I have had doubts about whether my technical level is advancing towards what one would require to enter as a freshman in college, but we discussed my concern and she's added more technical work. I think it really helps if you can be clear at the outset about what level of proficiency you want to attain, then ask questions of how the teacher plans to get you there and whether that approach includes all of the same content that a young student would get from elementary through high school piano lessons. If after you have given the teacher the chance and what you are getting in lessons does not match what they told you nor do they make adjustments after you have discussions then it is time to move on. Sometimes you get the right fit the first time and other times not. I know it can be frustrating when you feel you've wasted a precious amount of time trying to reach your goal. I know that sometimes I don't articulate my questions as clearly as I should, but I keep asking. The more I've been learning piano my questions keep evolving, too, so my questions become more refined. Once my teacher knows what's on my mind she makes adjustments. She, fortunately, is NOT like Gooddog's first teacher. AR
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#1705904 - 07/01/11 09:22 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: gooddog]
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Loc: Toronto, Ontario
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My goodness. Everyone is so NICE here in the ABF. Pianist Corner has gotten awfully biting lately. Yes, it's generally very supportive here. Some real good folks. There's lots of hairpulling over on Pianist's corner. I make sure I stock up on the popcorn before I look in over there.
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#1705945 - 07/01/11 10:44 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: Sparky McBiff]
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Registered: 06/08/08
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My goodness. Everyone is so NICE here in the ABF. Pianist Corner has gotten awfully biting lately. Yes, it's generally very supportive here. Some real good folks. There's lots of hairpulling over on Pianist's corner. I make sure I stock up on the popcorn before I look in over there.  That's a good attitude! It's only been ugly lately. It's interesting how the mood over there ebbs and flows as people join and leave. There are some really terrific people in PC, I just haven't heard from them much lately.
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#1705990 - 07/02/11 12:32 AM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: Sparky McBiff]
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Registered: 12/12/10
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Loc: Minneapolis, MN
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My goodness. Everyone is so NICE here in the ABF. Pianist Corner has gotten awfully biting lately. Yes, it's generally very supportive here. Some real good folks. There's lots of hairpulling over on Pianist's corner. I make sure I stock up on the popcorn before I look in over there. Popcorn!! I knew something was missing while I was sitting on the sidelines and taking it all in. 
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#1706166 - 07/02/11 12:02 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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I found a few organizatinos who have searchable databases. nmta was helpful & I also discovered that I when I searched for database for my state as well as our neighboring state, I found local organizations with searchable databases. On to some interviews.......
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#1706185 - 07/02/11 12:47 PM
Re: How to find an instructor who enjoys working with adults
[Re: sharisnotes]
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MTNA is a good organization but don't assume all MTNA teachers are good. The "trill contest" teacher I mentioned above is very active in MTNA.
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