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#1982083 - 11/03/12 08:09 AM
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7000 Post Club Member
Registered: 03/25/06
Posts: 7089
Loc: Georgia, USA
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Dear Piano World friends,
It has been said that it is not good to share things on an internet forum that are of a personal nature. However, I feel that the Piano World forum is more than just an Internet forum… it is a community of individuals, friends and acquaintances with similar interests.
With that said, it is with a heavy heart and a deep sense of loss and bereavement to report that my 77 year old mother passed away yesterday. Though she was in the hospital being treated for a blood clot in her leg, her death was sudden and unexpected.
I can’t say enough good things about my mom… we have lost a beautiful and rare person who is irreplaceable. My mom and I were very close.
Please remember our family in your thoughts and prayers.
Rick
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#1982085 - 11/03/12 08:16 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Sorry to hear about your and your family's loss. Best wishes coping with it.
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#1982086 - 11/03/12 08:20 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Deeply sorry to hear of your loss. You were right to share this burden with us.
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#1982094 - 11/03/12 08:47 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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6000 Post Club Member
Registered: 11/07/07
Posts: 6828
Loc: Grand Rapids Michigan
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Sorry to hear that Rick. You have my condolences.
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#1982098 - 11/03/12 08:59 AM
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[Re: Karl Watson]
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Registered: 06/22/11
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Dear Rick,
Deepest sympathy for your loss, sir. The world feels very strange for a while...emptier and less rich... I know the feeling. My father passed recently. We'll be in Washington DC in a few weeks for his burial in Arlington National Cemetary.
But, I think that the sudden loss you suffered makes it more painful. We, at least, knew that Dad was ill and were somewhat prepared. Having your Mom pass so suddenly and without warning is heartbreaking.
I keep stumbling over the simplest things I do; from tying my tie to polishing my shoes. All the daily habits and attitudes that I keep realizing were from my father's teaching. Just putting away the dishes or folding my damn socks brings Dad to mind.
You just don't realize how much of who you are is what you were taught as a child. Until you lose the teacher....
Sincerely,
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Jeffrey T. Hickey, RPT Oregon Coast Piano Services TunerJeff@aol.com
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#1982101 - 11/03/12 09:12 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Registered: 05/28/01
Posts: 8389
Loc: Philadelphia/South Jersey
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Rick,
I am so sorry for your loss. My parents are both having struggles right now so this hits me more closely than it normally would.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
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#1982102 - 11/03/12 09:14 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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9000 Post Club Member
Registered: 05/26/01
Posts: 9929
Loc: Maryland/DC/No. VA
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My deepest sympathies, Rick.
My mom is 93...not long for this world.
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#1982110 - 11/03/12 09:48 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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2000 Post Club Member
Registered: 05/15/12
Posts: 2331
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Dear Rick,
Please accept my condolences to you and your family upon the loss of your mother. As tribute, I will personally offer a dedication of our performance of the Faure Cantique de Jean Racine during Mass tomorrow morning.
Courage and strength my friend, Marty
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Marty in Minnesota
It's much easier to bash a Steinway than it is to play one.
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#1982115 - 11/03/12 10:12 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
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Posts: 1038
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Understand your pain. Prayers sent.
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#1982134 - 11/03/12 10:54 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Registered: 03/05/07
Posts: 362
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I am very sorry for your loss, Rick. It is good to share our burdens. I lost my Mom early this year, and it takes time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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#1982156 - 11/03/12 11:45 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Very sorry to hear it, Rick. My deepest sympathies.
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 I'd be tender, I'd be gentle And awfully sentimental Regarding love and art... I'd be friends with the sparrows And the boy who shoots the arrows If I only had a heart. -- E.Y. "Yip" Harburg and Harold Arlen
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#1982161 - 11/03/12 11:50 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Rick, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Kathy
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#1982163 - 11/03/12 11:55 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Registered: 02/25/12
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Loc: Chicago, IL
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Rick,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. My parents are both gone and I share the sense of deep loss with you. I will keep you in my thoughts,
~Richard
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“Music in the soul can be heard by the Universe.” ~Lao Tzu Richard J Beebe Piano Technician & Collaborative Pianist Bb Piano Service Chicago, Illinois www.bbpianoservice.combbpianoservice@gmail.com
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#1982175 - 11/03/12 12:09 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Condolences and prayers to you, Rick. The days get easier but loved ones remain in your thoughts forever.
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#1982176 - 11/03/12 12:10 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Yikes! 10000 Post Club Member
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Rick:
check my pm
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#1982180 - 11/03/12 12:19 PM
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Registered: 12/21/08
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Rick, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Be well, and don't forget to take care of yourself. Hopefully your piano will bring you some comfort.
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#1982190 - 11/03/12 12:44 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Registered: 05/01/09
Posts: 219
Loc: No. Va.
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I am so sorry, my friend. I lost my Mother 20 years ago, and it is still the single most difficult thing I ever went through. Our prayers are with you and your family.
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Mike Casio Privia PX 120 The only thing nescessary for evil to thrive is for good men to do nothing.
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#1982220 - 11/03/12 01:49 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
Registered: 05/18/06
Posts: 1442
Loc: Toronto
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Sorry for your loss Rick. Sending you white light...
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#1982230 - 11/03/12 02:15 PM
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Yikes! 10000 Post Club Member
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#1982234 - 11/03/12 02:27 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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500 Post Club Member
Registered: 01/06/12
Posts: 871
Loc: Toronto, Ontario
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Rick, we are indeed some sort of a community here on PW. And we do indeed care. Our thoughts are with you. All honor to your mother's memory.
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#1982256 - 11/03/12 03:16 PM
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[Re: casinitaly]
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Registered: 08/18/06
Posts: 940
Loc: Auckland New Zealand
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PM sent.
Profound condolences,
Robert.
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#1982302 - 11/03/12 05:55 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Posts: 252
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Rick, I lost my dad almost a year ago and I know that pain. Prayer are with you.
Another Rick in TX
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#1982304 - 11/03/12 06:00 PM
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#1982358 - 11/03/12 07:52 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
Registered: 08/01/11
Posts: 1403
Loc: Philadelphia area
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Rick, I will add your Mother, your family, and of course you to my daily prayers.
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#1982363 - 11/03/12 07:56 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
Registered: 04/18/08
Posts: 1466
Loc: Lower Mainland, BC
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Rick,
Times like this are difficult to get through alone. I hope you also gather the rest of your family around you to help each other get through this. I wish you well in the grieving process.
James
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Recordings of my recent solo piano and piano/keyboard trio jazz standards.
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#1982371 - 11/03/12 08:09 PM
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[Re: scepticalforumguy]
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Registered: 12/27/08
Posts: 372
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I am so sorry, Rick, and will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. You already have a heavy burden to carry, and I often think of your effort and how much strength you have shown. You will always have your memories to help you through this loss.
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#1982392 - 11/03/12 09:17 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
Registered: 06/26/08
Posts: 1846
Loc: Huntington Beach, CA
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Rick, my condolences for the loss of your Mom. It's tough to lose our loved ones, but it's the cycle of life.
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#1982403 - 11/03/12 10:10 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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I am very sorry for your loss, Rick.
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#1982406 - 11/03/12 10:18 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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500 Post Club Member
Registered: 05/01/11
Posts: 740
Loc: Calgary Alberta
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Rick I'm so very sad for you in hearing this news about your mom. I lost my dad about 5 months ago. I think of him all the time. Like you and your mom we were very close. Back then I had considered coming to PW and posting because I feel a great deal of support here. In the end I didn't post but if I had I know it would have helped me. I am glad you posted here. I hope it helps you in some way. I'm sure it will. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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#1982409 - 11/03/12 10:26 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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3000 Post Club Member
Registered: 04/09/06
Posts: 3029
Loc: Vancouver B.C. Canada
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Sorry for your loss. I understand the feeling you are and will be going through. Take care.
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#1982425 - 11/03/12 11:19 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Rick, I also send my deepest sympathy. I lost my great Dad not long ago. I'm not ready, at 57, to be the man of the family. Also, now I don't have him to call with all the news in my life. However, I'm certainly thankful that I had him in my life and I'm sure you feel the same way. BTW, I'd like to reach you Mom's age! Best to you always!
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#1982431 - 11/03/12 11:46 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Loc: Georgia, USA
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Thank you all so much for the kind words of comfort and consolation. And, thanks for all the PM’s. Yes, I do feel better, though still brokenhearted. There is suddenly a huge void in my life, but I know it will get better in time.
Mom bought me a good used piano about 7 years ago that got me interested in pianos. It was a Kohler & Campbell console upright. My 8 year old granddaughter has it now… still plays pretty good too.
Rick
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#1982505 - 11/04/12 07:32 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Posts: 288
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Rickster. How nice that you shared your love of the piano. She gave you and your family a great gift.
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#1982743 - 11/04/12 07:10 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Rick, so sorry to hear this. My own mother died 4 years ago, and I think of her so many times every day. I miss her every day. But you will continue. You will find pleasure again. You will think of your mother, not with sadness, but with pleasure.
Play the piano for her. I know she will hear you. The healing powers of music will help you too.
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#1982908 - 11/05/12 08:42 AM
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Sorry to hear of this - praying that you will experience God's peace and comfort at this time.
Alan
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#1983582 - 11/06/12 10:23 PM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Rick,
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I lost my Mom about 8 years ago and my Dad 2 years ago. Losing my mother was one of the reasons I went back to playing piano. It did help me cope.
I am so sorry.
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#1983704 - 11/07/12 08:44 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Posts: 98
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Rick,
My deepest symphaty.
I wish you strength and resignation.
RG
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#1984516 - 11/09/12 07:18 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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1000 Post Club Member
Registered: 12/24/10
Posts: 1662
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Dear Rick,
I am very sorry to hear of this. You have my wishes for mental strength and ability to be able to cope with what must be an overwhelming loss. Accept my condolences.
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#1984581 - 11/09/12 10:45 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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7000 Post Club Member
Registered: 03/25/06
Posts: 7089
Loc: Georgia, USA
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I want to thank everyone here at PW for their words of comfort, condolence and encouragement. As I said before, it means a lot to me.
I’ve spent the past week with my sister, who lived only a couple of blocks from mom, and my brother, who lives in Ohio. It hasn’t been easy, but having us siblings together during this time has been a lot of comfort and consolation as we grieve together over the loss of our dear mother.
As many here have said, mom will live on in our hearts and minds.
Thanks again,
Rick
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#1984884 - 11/10/12 03:46 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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Posts: 112
Loc: Vancouver, BC, Canada
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Dear Rick
My condolences on the recent loss of your mother. My own mother passed away 35 years ago at the young age of 51 this past October 29th. She was my first piano teacher and instilled the love of music in me. I still miss her. She is a part of who I am and so she's not really totally gone.
Sincerely,
Kevin
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#1985249 - 11/11/12 06:54 AM
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[Re: Rickster]
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500 Post Club Member
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Loc: west coast island, canada
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Dear Rick, This is a simple and heart felt improv I recorded a few days ago at home,. Sending this with love to you and your mom. nú
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