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#2100634 - 06/10/13 09:23 PM The moment before a breakthrough
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Finding my last two breakthroughs came after days of extreme frustration where I felt I wasn't getting any where.

Anyone else find this to be the case?

Think I should relish becoming frustrated from now on.
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#2100641 - 06/10/13 09:42 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Definitely found this to be true bolt. Occasionally I have sunk into despair when things aren't going well. I have came back the next day to find everything has fallen into place. What sweet joy that is, and has helped me cope better when I am having those dark thoughts.
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#2100763 - 06/11/13 03:00 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Making effective use of post practice improvement (PPI) is something that could save most all of us from this kind of frustration.

http://www.pianofundamentals.com/book/en/1.II.15

http://www.jeff-brent.com/Lessons/TheSubconsciousAndMaximizingPracticeTime.html
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#2100811 - 06/11/13 06:09 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I have found this with anything that requires repetitive practice. Take some time off, it somehow sinks in and you have better control when you return. The trick is to realise the correct moment to take a break, and not continue plodding along, imo.
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#2100832 - 06/11/13 08:35 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Absolutely true for me too. When I'm learning a new piece at first it feels comfortable and relatively easy to learn. Then as I dig into the details of getting the rhythm, notes and emphasis just right, my body just does it wrong. I reach a point where it feels not worth the effort and then a day off or two and the piece starts to flow. My brain has to take control or the emotional strength to keep going is not there. At a gathering the other day the adults were discussing how even play becomes work sometimes so you have to reframe your thinking that the repetition that feels like work is still part of play. LOL. I've listened to golfers, bowlers, softball players, even video gamers express the same point of frustration. Small wonder so many give up. Not us though
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#2100835 - 06/11/13 08:46 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I don't think I've really had any. It's just slow progress towards the goal. Trills for instance.

Piece #1: Can't do them at all, complete rubbish.
Piece #2: Ugh
Piece #3: Getting a little closer but need a lot of work
Piece #10: Ah, that sounds more like it!
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#2100910 - 06/11/13 12:40 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I used to get my head down and bash on towards the witching hour. And then I got no sleep . . .There is a place for dogged determination. It`s amongst younger people than me!
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#2101039 - 06/11/13 04:58 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I used to get frustrated when I ran into those plateaus, but now I embrace them, 'cause something awesome is about to happen.

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#2101824 - 06/13/13 04:49 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: AimeeO]
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It seems for me frustration and even anger work for my benefit. When things go smoothly I tend to stagnate, but when I hit a real problem I curse, pull my sleeves and work though it no matter what. The best results tend to come when I sit on my piano for a couple of hours after my lesson has ended in a disaster smile

This helps to solve the problem, but I agree that taking time off from actual practicing (and sleep) is what makes it stick in longer term.

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#2101935 - 06/13/13 11:46 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I, too, have to get to that point of frustration and even anger before I get to the next level on a piece. Once I get mad at myself over it, then my determination really kicks in and I get it figured out somehow.
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#2119723 - 07/18/13 04:13 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: Morodiene]
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Sorry I didn't reply back, have been away from this forum for a while.

Some of you got exactly what I meant. Despair, anger frustration, feeling like giving up, quitting piano, anger at the teacher even for making you do whatever it is you're failing so badly at! And then two days later everything is great and you are playing better than ever.

And AimeeO, I think you are exactly right, it seems we should embrace this feeling, look forward to it even, because it means great things are about to happen.

Anyway, this all just happened to me all over again and I didn't even take my own advice until it was all over with.
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#2120188 - 07/19/13 02:41 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Play slower.
Stay focused. When you're not, stop for a while then try again.

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#2120203 - 07/19/13 03:05 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Yes, that has happened to me in music, art, and film making.
I think the frustration is as we are moving out of our comfort zone. The breakthrough is when we moved out of the comfort zone and have reached a new level. That's not to say all breakthroughs are preceded by frustration though.
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#2120238 - 07/19/13 04:47 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I always make progress when I've been broken. When all is lost. There is no hope. I'm beat. That is when the race begins.



BTW: Is it ok to make hamburger helper with a pound and a half of hamburger? It was on special. smile
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#2120268 - 07/19/13 05:52 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Originally Posted By: bolt
Sorry I didn't reply back, have been away from this forum for a while.

Some of you got exactly what I meant. Despair, anger frustration, feeling like giving up, quitting piano, anger at the teacher even for making you do whatever it is you're failing so badly at! And then two days later everything is great and you are playing better than ever.


Don't just let these experiences come and go. Use them to learn from. Think back at what you're getting frustrated over, how you work to break it down into a simpler problem (assuming you do), and what eventually succeeds in getting you up and over the hump. Every breakthrough happens for a very specific reason - they're most certainly not random (though they very much appear to often be). Learn to use this "feedback cycle" for your own benefit. As you grow more educated, experienced, and aware, you'll become more efficient in your learning and your progress, and eventually the possibility of encountering such frustration again will completely vanish.
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#2120360 - 07/19/13 09:55 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Thanks for all the replies everyone. I found them all very interesting.
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#2120396 - 07/20/13 01:18 AM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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I wonder if the sense of frustration and being lost at sea that comes before a breakthrough may be a symptom of having outgrown a mental structure that has brought one thus far, but is insufficient to carry one along any farther.

So maybe the feeling of being lost and hopeless is really *is* an experience of being lost without a map, as your brain lets go of connections within itself, releasing one's dependence on the ideas and habits that have been holding one back from further growth.

And the breakthrough comes when this detachment from old mental habits permits the mind to integrate new and better skills or understandings.
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#2120530 - 07/20/13 12:13 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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Ironically a breakthrough. is just the brain finishing up on a wiring project after hard work and some decent sleep...

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#2120546 - 07/20/13 01:10 PM Re: The moment before a breakthrough [Re: bolt]
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+1s to rnaple, tangleweeds and Mark... That's the way it works for me, too, and these were well-said.

Cathy
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