It is something you should learn by training, after a little understanding of the basics which are that the hammer only can help the sound in regard of a particular soundbord setup and condition.
A good way to learn is to change hammers on a grand piano .
There are seminars and trainings in France organized regularely. have a look at the AFRP web Site if you wish to attain.
To have some benefit of a hammer change training, one may have undestood the precise (I mean musical) regulation of the grand.
Al in all that could take a few years (5 to 10) if you are not training dayly (and more than that !
The hammer felt is a thick sheet of progressively harder felt which is plied on a wooden core, compressed, and secured with glue and an agrafe.
The way to treat them is differnet depending of the era, the kind of hammer, the continent, and the wanted tonal output.
ANd more than that is is mostly a cuultural question to begin with , as you need to have a good picture of what you are looking for before discovering waht is really possible on a given instrument.
All descriptions can't help much, we are tempted to siplify and to have rules, but even those rules may differ depending of the factory.
An experienced tuner and regulating technician can
easely understand voicing, some are more likely to do so than others.
Modern hammers are alwaus thicker in the treble, older one tend to warp in time, or sometime break unde rthe press pressure, hammer makers dont take the risk actually.
The wood within the hammer play a role in the attack tone as it load the shank and resonnate with it (hence insertion of lead always kill part of that aspect)in fact everything in a piano have some importantce , even the pianist !!!