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Because I am bipolar that causes my mood to get rather negative and because I am a bit on the lazy side, I have been in one of those "on again - off again" practice modes. A few weeks will go by when I won't touch the piano, and then I will play everyday for 2-3 hours for many weeks. Needless to say, this routine hasn't done much for my progress.

I must add that I am racked with guilt and get depressed because of this, which also does nothing to break this cycle.

So...although it is just about a month away, I have already made just one New Year's resolution. That being that no matter what, I will practice at least one hour a day. And I will practice first before I charge up my computer. I can be quite stubborn and obstinate at times, so I hope these dubious qualities will be put to good use.

Have you thought about yours - those regarding your playing and/or practice?

Kathleen

I have resolved not to make any resolutions, and I am rather resolute about this.

Regards (and wondering if my statement is a kind of resolution in itself), JF

Ah...I think it is.

Kathleen

Kathleen,
You may want to reconsider and aim for 30 minutes minimum per day, rather than one hour- that way, you will constantly be surpassing your resolution, and that will be a mood-lifter! On the other hand, if you were to miss the one hour mark, it would be a downer.

My resolutions about practicing, (which I have already begun), include more sight reading practice, playing in front of others more often (to reduce performance jitters)- which may require begging and bribing people to actually sit and listen to me- also to keep some shorter, pop tunes in the rotation. I don't set a minimum time limit- for me, that would be hard to maintain, and would set the stage for discouragement. But I can see how it might work for others.

After 73 years of living with myself, I too do not make New Year's resolutions.

That out of the way. Piano, or in my case, keyboard, is for enjoyment, if something else happens to be more enjoyable today, well, practice time takes second fiddle.

Of course practice time must come into the picture if we want to play music. I guess my point is I enjoy music, however, do not beat myself around the head and face if I miss a practice session.

I have a set time each day for practice, this seems to help. Your comment about practicing before hitting the Internet should work.

Have fun.

Chardonnay: You are very wise. And I really think your advice makes more sense and would be more enjoyable.

Rather than be so rigid, I would find my experience at the piano more fun if I could approach it each day with a different goal in mind. Some days, bringing out that music that I used to play and try to bring it back. On another day, perhaps just some sight reading (which I really like) and so on. Rather than plug away on the same piece, everyday, trying to get it perfect, I should give myself a break and follow where my inclinations lead me.

Thank you so much,

Fondly,
Kathleen

nm

JF, that is sorta like choosing not to decide (therefore making a choice).

For a split second I though this thread was about chord progressions, then I realized it’s that time of the year again.

My resolution is to finish pieces I start, unless they pan out of be out of my technical reach.

When I have those moments when I don't feeling getting off the couch to practice -I tell myself just play for 5-10 minutes. That's ridiculously easy and hard to talk myself out of by saying I'm to tired etc (the goal is to get my butt of the couch). Once I am at the piano of course I am not going to play for only 5-10 min. I usually ends up being 30 min to an hour. Of course I am a little hyper (maybe ADD) and sometimes that hour is broken up (play for 15, get up and do something else-then play 20 more etc). If I told myself I was going to sit down for an hour I would go out of my mind.

As far as resolutions. Well I tend to try to improve myself and my life on a regular basis. But, this year I really REALLY need to get to bed at a reasonable hour so I can get up for work in the morning. I would love to get up early do some light exercises and practice piano a little before work.

I already started my eating right resolution the day after thanksgiving. I took a day for my pants not to fit anymore and three days to be able to get back into them.

Like John Frank, I do not make New Years resolutions. I used to, and never kept them, and felt bad about it. I am a procrastinator and I've gotten worse over my 63 years, and don't need unfulfilled resolutions to get me down. But piano is still very new to me, so I do practice most days. In fact, it seems that I practice piano to avoid other important things that I should be doing.

That is a constant struggle for me. I have been consistently sacrificing sleep to practice piano and guitar for over a year and it is definitely catching up to me.

Well, I'm retiring come january 1st

So, after working 28 years on shifts (nights, days, weekends...) I will take some time to settle into a regular life routine before setting goals or taking resolutions; more and better structured parctice should be on the menu but how much leaves to be determined.

So, let's say MORE will be the word

Incorporate reviving and maintaining my old pieces into my practice routine so I actually develope a repertoire instead my current routine of learn, polish and forget

To try and instantiate further the concept of don't practice mistakes and its implications.

I think that is a great goal, Frycek. I know that after working hard to learn a piece, I don't like the idea of forgetting how to play it. To me, what's the point of learning it if I'm only going to forget and never play it again. (I'm not talking about lessons and exercises).

Of course, it's always great to learn something new, but if you are playing for your own pleasure, you should definitely have a repertoire of music that you can just enjoy "playing" as opposed to "practicing".

I'm on the same page as JFrank on this one - don't think I will be making any!

I have a planning oriented background in my professional life, and that has worked it's way into my personal life. Each December, I develop a two to three page document that lists different areas of life--financial, fitness, family, health, etc. Within each area I ask myself what I want to accomplish (in the next year or over several years) and then what I need to do to get there. From that exercise, I end up with two to four objectives within each area. I don't call them resolutions because to me a resolution is a short-term wish with no discipline or plan behind it that will soon be forgotten.

It's my first year for piano, so I will likely end up with objectives around beginning to develop a repertoire, consistent practicing (six out of seven days per week?), maybe an objective to learn a particular challenging piece, etc.

OK...I'm probably a bit obsessive about this but it works for me!

Evan

I make monthly resolutions; my piano-related resolution this month is to do one Pischna exercise and one Brahms exercise every day (except Saturday - I only practice 6 days a week). I have to work on my technique.

Evan,
Are you an accountant by chance?
I also prepare an annual plan that includes household projects, professional development, finances, fitness and of course piano. I use an Excel workbook to help keep me organized. This method has helped me to run a marathon without sacrificing all my other interests. I revisit my plan often during the year and tweak it a bit here and there.
For the piano portion of my plan I list sheet music to purchase, pieces that I would like to learn, concerts of inspirational musicians and books on music and piano to read. I meet with my piano teacher once a week for an hour and she pretty much motivates me to practice daily. I mean who wants to play lousy in front of their teacher?
I'm in my second year of piano lessons and sometimes it is hard to find the time to practice, but if I just sit down and start a scale I'm instantly transported and play for at least an hour and a half.
Charlie

My piano related ones are:

1) I will be able to play Shendoah level 1 by the end of the year.
2) I will be encouraged by the talent in this forum rather than be intimidated.
3) I will participate in the next recital even if I can do nothing more elaborate than Twinkle Twinkle Little Star because it will remind me that I am a part of something much bigger than myself.
4) I will record my playing one time each month so that, in a year, I can look back and see my progress on those days when I feel discouraged.